I haven't known quite what to say, but I have to say something. I grew up in Andrew's era in school chess, and I remember him as PAC's board 1 for quite a while. He was always a figure in the chess scene, but maybe it wasn't until we both joined the Adelaide uni club that we became friends.
I had lost touch with him though, perhaps hadn't seen him since Mt Buller in 2005 - I'm not sure. But living in Canberra, I had decided to play in this year's Doeberl, and on the Friday he came up to me and said hi, and it was just like old times. It turned out we were paired up to play each other in the second round. I went a little wrong early, and he beat me convincingly, mercilessly you might say. After the game, still in the silence of the tournament hall, I whispered "what was that? I thought we were friends!", and he grinned and apologised.. we sat and analysed it afterwards, and he showed me where I went wrong. He of course won his next 5 games, and the tournament.
And the weekend was great - I had told a couple of people that I was struggling a bit in the tournament itself, but had met up with an old friend. We went for lunch on Sunday - Hannibal came too, and he seemed a quiet but really nice person - Andrew took us to the national library cafe.. despite living here, I'd never been, but he was pretty discerning with his food and the location. It was just a mild, sunny day.
And I watched him win the tournament. As I left on Monday afternoon, I interrupted him to say one final congratulations and goodbye, and he juggled his trophy, ipad, and something else and shook my hand. We had agreed to meet up when I next found myself in Melbourne. He said he knew some good restaurants.
People have mentioned his sense of humour, and some of his jokes just that weekend make me smile. And I remember in the early early days he told me that his rival school St Peters' Latin motto translated as "born to rule", and he put it with such conviction that I didn't know if I should believe him or not.
I keep thinking of Alex and their father, and the others in the van. It is so shocking.
Paul